Given our technology is hopefully only going to keep improving, I would imagine that means our evolved compulsion to seek out others will fade as well. Blaming everyone else, the system, and changing times will do us no good. It's rather addictive, but it's not good for you. Little by little, things will look up.
It's not based on what they look like. I managed to pass the physical on my second attempt and served 2 five year terms in Africa, where I was surrounded by real men and learned respect for God, respect for the poor, and respect for cultures that are not awash in consumerism.
There are services for Jews, Christians, Muslims, Trump supporters, people who self-select as intelligent and vegans. Do they not deserve a good woman? Government or the federal Medicare program. Clearly, psychologists have a lot of work to do before they can convince daters that their algorithms are more effective.